Adhd Bullshit
adhd bullshit
how can i get my therapist to stop…?
i dont feel comfortable around her and i dont want to talk to her about the issues that i have. she’s really supposed to help me with my ADHD but she always brings up personal shit that i don’t want her to talk to me about. my parents told her that i have like issues or whatever and yes, i do, but they aren’t what i’m there for and i certainly wouldn’t talk to her about it because she just isn’t the theapist that i would even talk to. i told my parents to get her to stop and they started giving me all of this bullshit that i need it but i just dont feel comfortable talking to her about anything personal. what do i do to get her to stopppppppppppppppppp?
It’s obvious that you don’t have a good or trusting relationship with your therapist, which is important for achieving any sort of goals.
I am sure that with ADHD you do have some ‘issues’ with respect to behavior, impulse control and attention.
If you are uncomfortable, you actually need to tell her that, point blank. Seriously. Just say “I don’t feel comfortable with you, and I don’t want to discuss these issues with you.” A good therapist would then refer you to someone else who you would be more comfortable with. Sometimes talking about your problems with another person who is not your parents or teachers, etc. helps to give you some perspective on them you’d miss because you’re too close to them. Your parents should not be discussing anything you discuss with your therapist, because that would be a violation of privacy laws and patient confidentiality laws. This would not apply if you intended to hurt yourself or other people. Remind her that you don’t want your therapy sessions discussed with your parents.
Good luck.
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